One of the best Maggie photos I've taken.
She stayed that way for maybe five minutes, while I laughed, looked away to try to stop, looked back and saw her and started laughing again.
Yeah, everything's fine here, just got busy and blogging fell farther down the list. I've been:
I don't know, it doesn't seem like a whole lot there, but it's certainly taking a lot of time and energy. My friend gets here Thursday, so I may not be back here again until after she leaves, but I didn't want anyone worrying. Fine, busy, tired: lather, rinse, repeat.
Oh, wait, one exciting thing! Know what this is?
A couple of years ago, when I wanted to try multifocal contact lenses, there was one (yes: one) brand that made them in my prescription. (My eyes are very bad, and the contacts I wear are -10.5 and -11.5.) I tried them, of course, and unfortunately found them too uncomfortable to wear. Like little pieces of sandpaper on my eyes!
But at my eye check this year, instead of them saying that was still the only option, they found that these now come in my strength! They got me trial ones, I put them in today, and ... they're perfectly comfortable? And improve my vision to where, though I won't be throwing the readers away, I don't need them for EVERYthing? It's early, but this feels very promising. Fingers crossed.
Here's what annoys me--ha, ha, like there is only one thing that annoys me! Are you new here, to believe that? Well, this is the thing that is currently annoying me the most.
I got the second covid booster, and just like before (both the second shot and the first booster), the lymph nodes on that side are swollen and tender, so it's really uncomfortable. Googling it tells me that it's a normal reaction, it's nothing to worry about, it means my immune system is reacting to the shot and that's what we want! It's like the immune system is yelling, Fire drill! Fire drill! Places, everyone!
However. It also says that if you don't have such symptoms, don't worry, it doesn't mean that your immune system isn't registering the vaccine, it's just not showing that exact effect for you.
So why do I have to have the ouch reaction, if that's the case?
It's worth it for the protection, but owwww.
Also: if the ibuprofen is actually helping with the inflammation, then without it, I would look like I had a grapefruit under my arm.
How many places do I hurt? Let me count:
The list of what doesn't hurt might be shorter today, really. What about you, how are you doing?
I started this post a while back, to show you the yarn store I went to last month, but like so many things, blogging has been bumped down the priority list recently. It isn't that my mother needs a lot of care, but she can't yet do a lot of things that she usually does, and I'm finding it mentally, if not physically, tiring to stay on top of everything. But it's all good, she's getting better, and it's certainly good that I'm here when she needs me.
Meanwhile, yarn shop! With sheep!
A couple of months ago, I wrote about frogging an old knitting project that I was ready to admit wasn't working. This week, based on something mentioned in talking with knitting friends, I felt inspired to do some more. I pulled three project bags out of a cubby and assessed them.
Number one, time to go.
Then I pulled the third one out, and wait...this is a finished project. It needs to be blocked, and have the end run in, but it's done. How did it get put away like this?
I have no idea. No memory of it. I do remember finishing it, because I had to scrounge up some different yarn when I ran out with 30 stitches left in the bind-off. But then I just ... didn't block it? Well, apparently! So it's off enjoying a nice soak, and I'll show you how it goes later.
EDITED: I found another one! What on earth? What was going on with me in the winter of 2015-2016 that this happened not once but TWICE? I am so confused by Past Me right now.
So that's six projects frogged so far, and two "WTF, run in the ends and they're done" discoveries.
Mom and I had both heard from many sources that shoulder surgery is a tough one, harder to recover from than hips, and so far I think we are seeing that. And of course knowing it's coming and actually going through it are different, aren't they?
Mom has pain medication, so that's good, but it means she can't have her wine while she's on it, which is tough. The ice packs and exercises are going to be good for her recovery in the long run, but are bothersome in the now. I try to encourage her without nagging too much.
As for me, in the normal course of life we both do various household tasks, and now the majority falls to me, plus there are things she simply can't do that need to be done for her*. And don't get me wrong, I'm delighted to be here for her, so she doesn't have to go to a nursing home/rehab to get through this. But it's the strangest combination of stressful and boring.
*Not to get into the things she tries to do for herself anyway: Mom, get off the stepstool!
This role doesn't play to my strengths, which are in planning and anticipation, not spontaneity, handling things are they come up. But being here is important, and I am.
As is Maggie.