I mostly knit, sometimes crochet or cross-stitch. I read, a lot. I love cats. I love hockey, especially my no-longer-local team, the Boston Bruins. Want more? Read on.
So, yeah. We're (mostly) fine here, but there have been Things.
Overall, fine! But posting might be light for a bit.
I've been a fan of the author Katherine Addison since The Goblin Emperor came out; to quote myself, "excellent world-building, with its own language and speech conventions that are conveyed without confusion (or without much, anyway)." And as much as I love it, I have been equally-if-not-more pleased by her subsequent related-but-not-directly books, The Witness for the Dead and The Grief of Stones (not to mention her supernatural take on Sherlock Holmes, The Angel of the Crows, which is also great but very different). The books are great, and the audio versions are wonderful: honestly, I think I would struggle a lot more with the names of people and places, except that I can "hear" them from the many times I have listened to the books.
Anyway! As a member of her Patreon, I saw recently when she gave away a few copies of the new book in the series, The Tomb of Dragons*, which comes out in March, and though I wasn't quick enough to win one of those, she next gave away advance copies of a new novella, The Orb of Cairado, which is in the same world but with different characters, and comes out in January (Subterranean Press is printing a limited, signed run). And guess what, I won!
*One of the reviews on Goodreads states, "The Tomb of Dragons did not disappoint me in the slightest, except that it ended" which is very promising!
It arrived yesterday:
I read it (of course), and I quite liked it, though I would not at all suggest jumping in with this one if you haven't read the series. You could read the books about Thara Celehar without having read The Goblin Emperor first, though I would argue you shouldn't, but in my opinion, you'll really want to understand how this world works before reading this novella. If you have read the others, then yes, I recommend this one!
In the spirit of both "just one thing" and not letting the perfect be the enemy of the done (I know, I'm mangling that), yesterday I ordered my holiday cards. As in the past few years, I used a Groupon to get half off cards at Staples, and in fact my order was ready to pick up last night, when my knitting group meets, right next to Staples. So now I have the cards, and they can wait until after Thanksgiving to be addressed, but I have them. Phew.
You'll see them on Christmas day here, as is my habit! In the meantime, perhaps you would enjoy this total piece of randomness.
I know, I'm a Shakespeare nerd, but the idea of Hamlet and Othello switching plays and each taking care of business very competently just tickles me.
It's not that I didn't know what I was getting into, politically speaking, when I moved to Florida. My mother had mentioned many times how she couldn't understand how people who were otherwise so pleasant were so very different from her, politically. This has only become more true in the last decade, and it really is unnerving to live here sometimes. One can feel very alone, a blue dot in such a red state.
However, the local paper this morning listed all the vote totals for Florida, and while it doesn't change the end result at all, it made me feel just slightly better about living here.
Yes, he got over six million votes, but she got over four and three-quarter million! That is not nothing.
And one of those is me.
J's comment on my post yesterday made me think of this cartoon.
This is from Emily's Cartoons*; I found her years ago from her take on Harry Potter, way back before JKR was revealed to be such an awful person (sigh), but her non-HP stuff is also very funny.
*That link is to her shop, but she's also on Instagram and Facebook and has a Patreon page.
I also want to share something J put up today, because boy does this nail what I'm feeling:
I can't talk about the election results yet. I don't know when I'll be able to. We fight on, but for today at least, for my mental health (and my blood pressure), I'm pretending it didn't happen.
I've read some good books recently, so I thought it was time to share them here!
Looking back at the ending, it felt a bit rushed: reading an ebook, I’m not always aware of how close to the end I am, and it came as something of a surprise to realize we were there, at the climactic events and then the end. There is some implausibility to how things wrapped up, but I actually can see how it could have been even more so and wasn’t, so although that’s a backhand compliment, I do mean it well. A book I’m glad to have read, though not the one I would recommend for jumping into this series.
"Homeless. Broke. Shunned by friends and neighbours. This was not what sixty-two was supposed to look like for Barbara Baker.As a member of Toronto's exclusive Rosedale society, Barb was a fixture on charity committees and an accomplished hostess whose dinner invitations were coveted by Toronto's elite. Her comfortable life ended when her husband's criminal activity was discovered—he'd been stealing from everyone for decades, using her exceptional hostess skills to reel in new victims."
I have no idea why this song came into my head this morning, but I have to share this silly Christmas song with you. Please forgive me.
Love it!
I'm not someone who venerates actors as special or extra-important, but that doesn't mean that a person who is an actor can't say something that strikes me. And in this case, when Harrison Ford endorsed Kamala Harris, this is the part that hit me: "Kamala Harris will protect your right to disagree with her."
The election is almost here. Soon, soon, we will know soon.
Although, as the Globe warned:
I appreciated this, in the Guardian the other day, in the "tell it like it is" sense of appreciation:
But most of all, this ad made me laugh.
Given the way the Bruins had been playing going into the weekend (short answer: very, very poorly), I was starting to worry about my election night plan of watching the Bruins game. But they won yesterday and again today, so I'm more comfortable with the idea. Certainly no guarantees, but at least if they play well, it will be entertaining. I'll just need to put down my phone and tablet, and keep my hands busy with knitting instead of doom-scrolling.
All right, having rousted her highness off my lap:
It's bedtime.
I turned over the Sandra Boynton holiday calendar today, and had to laugh. First, for the overall sentiment.
Hoo boy, yeah. I feel that already. (Did you vote yet? Please do!)
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Meanwhile, with all the nonsense coming from journalism in the US these days (I almost want to say "journalism"), I decided to subscribe to The Guardian, to broaden my reading.
After I created my account, they offered me these newsletters:
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Finally, Maggie needs to get her share of time. From the lap this morning:
She does know how to spread out.
I've probably put this up before, but this is from the last time I dressed up for Halloween, in 2014.
Honestly, I haven't worn the costume since, and it's on a shelf in the closet; I should probably pass that on to someone who wants it. It's good quality, but I think my dressing-up days are done.
Do you dress up? Have kids that do? Or celebrate by buying half-price candy on November 1?
I'm going to put this on my posts until election day:
No shame if you haven't made a plan to vote yet, but today would be a great day to do it! Is there early voting in your state? (I learned today that almost all of them do! Just not in Alabama, Mississippi, and New Hampshire.) If you got a mail-in ballot, can you drop it at early voting instead of relying on the mail to get it there in time? Or do you want to go on the day itself? That's November 5, next Tuesday! Why not look at your schedule now and see what works best for you?
Actually, this is a story of two friends indeed! I mentioned recently that I was having trouble with a knitting project: I couldn't find where I had made a mistake, but the stitch count had gone wrong. Last night, my knitting group met in person again (yay!) after spending the summer on Zoom*, and I said that I wasn't sure what I was going to do about it, try again or just move to a different project.
*Though actually, we had Zoom open too, for the sake of the people who aren't here yet.
A couple of people who are better than I am at 'reading' a piece of knitting* offered to look at it, and discovered that yeah, it was my mistake (I am not shocked). They suggested that I could run in a lifeline, rip back to it, and go on from there. Which is good advice, but I said that no, I could guarantee that if I tried it, I would mess up getting all the stitches from the same row, and end up flinging it across the room in a fit of fury (knitter, know thyself), so it was either frog the whole project and start over, or frog it and go with Plan B.
*I'm really not very good at that, especially in lace.
One of these friends actually loves straightening out tangles (seriously, her eyes light up when someone says "hey, I have something for you" and it's a tangled mess), and she offered to take it home, do it herself, and get it back to me. How awesome is that? I will report back on how it goes.
I'm going to put this on my posts until election day:
No shame if you haven't made a plan to vote yet, but today would be a great day to do it! Is there early voting in your state? If you got a mail-in ballot, can you drop it at early voting instead of relying on the mail to get it there in time? Or do you want to go on the day itself? That's November 5, a week from Tuesday! Why not look at your schedule now and see what works best for you?
A long while ago, back when she blogged frequently, I read something by the Yarn Harlot in which she mentioned that she was talking about something with her husband and he said, "Did you ask the blog?" Once in a while, I too "ask the blog" for suggestions--and sometimes, y'all know answers to something I'm just venting about, which is cool, too. So here I am.
I haven't been out of the US in recent years, which coincidentally means during the years I have owned a smartphone. It occurred to me that when I go to Curaçao next February---wait, did I mention that yet? No? Okay, back up!
Back in 2022, I took a trip with the Newcomers Club, to Sarasota, Florida. The club plans a "spring fling" trip every year, and as this is my last year in Newcomers*, I was interested to know what the destination would be. And the answer was, Curaçao!
*As a club designed for new people to meet other new people, you can only be a member for five years. My group and some others got an extra year because for a while during the pandemic, nothing much was happening. But we will "spin out" in April.
My experience in that part of the world is limited, especially if you don't count where we lived before Boston, which we moved to when I was about two and a half. That means I don't remember Brazil, Grenada, Guyana...we did go to Barbados twice when I was in high school, but I think that's it.
Gratuitous high-school-me photo, taken with my Kodak Disc camera in the mid-80s:
So I am excited to go to Curaçao, and I will add that if there isn't a planned trip to the ostrich farm, I will be going to that on my own, because how can you not?
Anyway. My original point here is that I haven't been out of the US with a smartphone, so I need to find out if mine will function there the same way it does here. Before I do actual research, does anyone know offhand? Not Curaçao specifically, but in general? Or do I actually have to (ugh) call AT&T?
I don't plan to spend a lot of time using my phone, btw. I will take plenty of photos, guaranteed. I don't plan to be worrying about keeping on top of my email or reading blogs, etc. But based on previous trips, I will want/need to be able to text and/or chat, for meeting-up purposes, and perhaps will need the map feature, too. Completely unplugging won't work.
I'm going to put this on my posts until election day:
No shame if you haven't made a plan to vote yet, but today would be a great day to do it! Is there early voting in your state? If you got a mail-in ballot, can you drop it at early voting instead of relying on the mail to get it there in time? Or do you want to go on the day itself? That's November 5, a week from Tuesday! Why not look at your schedule now and see what works best for you?
I read two very different new fantasy books recently, and wanted to share in case anyone else is interested, because they were both really good!
Prince of Fortune by Lisa Tirreno is actually billed as young adult, which I didn't realize before I read it, but I suppose that fits as the main characters are 16 at the start. Edmund and Aubrey are lovely, and well characterized, and the fantasy world and events are believable and logical without my in any way being able to predict what was going to happen. The boys are just so perfect for each other, and watching them overcome serious obstacles was very satisfying.
Content warnings: There is some violence (the fact that war is coming is a chapter-one reveal), and a romantic relationship of which the details are implied more than shown on the page: yearning and kisses yes, sex no, for those who wish to know that.
I enjoyed this book so much that I wanted to be able to immediately read it again for the first time. I had bought the ebook, and promptly bought the audio so that I can listen to it as well. (So far, I like it, and the two narrators are doing a good job.) Frankly, it blows me away that this is her debut novel.
The other book is the new one by Freya Marske, Swordcrossed.
I loved A Marvellous Light by Marske, which is an alternate-universe Edwardian English setting with magic, and after she finished that trilogy, I was excited to see what came next. It's very different, but also very good!
When I started reading this, I found the first few pages somewhat confusing, but that was largely because my mother kept interrupting me so I couldn't concentrate very well. Once I settled into it, I enjoyed figuring out the way the world worked, with the different guilds and beliefs and rituals.
Matti is getting married, for family-business-bond-strengthening reasons rather than love, and he needs to hire a swordsman to stand with him for the ceremony (to face any challengers---and wouldn't "speak now or forever hold your peace" have more layers if you had to bring a sword and duel someone?). He may not love his betrothed, but when he meets Luca, the swordsman, well, sparks fly!
Matti has a lot of secrets, and it turns out that Luca does, too. As they work together to figure out what's going on and right a few serious wrongs, they get to know and trust each other, in ways that were both what I expected and complete surprises.
Content warning: If on-page sex bothers you (I suppose I should add, between two men), this isn't for you.
I finished writing my 200* please-vote postcards Tuesday night:
Can you believe I had to disturb this picture of serenity to start work this morning?
I've been feeling overwhelmed lately by All The Things that need doing, so today I tried my best to shift into Just One Thing mode. Yes, I have so many things to do! Indeed! So many!
Do one of them.
Did one? Yay! Now do another.
Yes, putting that in the trash counts.
Or the other thing where it belongs in the bathroom.
Any. Thing.
It isn't much, but some things are getting done. Which is how Just One Thing works, eventually.
I did my absentee ballot yesterday! And will drop it off at early voting at the library tomorrow. It's so nice to delete messages without even looking at them. Too late! I voted!
And the postcards are almost done, which is good because am I ever sick of them they have to be mailed on Thursday. Turns out 200 is a lot, who knew*. And the arthritis in my hands is gently suggesting that maybe next election, we could instead put some money where our hands are, hmm? Ow.
*I wrote before that I signed up for 100, and I thought I had; that's how many postcards stamps I ordered...but the original email from them doesn't say, and I definitely got 200.
In other news, I started back to work today, after being off for hurricane and then vacation. This morning, my alarm woke me from a dream that my alarm hadn't gone off and I was late for work...I was very confused for a moment. The day wasn't too crazy, fortunately, although starting out by sorting through 325 emails was not the most entertaining thing ever.
Somehow, somehow, I have messed this up.
Argh, argh, argh.
I love knitting...it's so relaxing...most of the time.
I have so much on my mind right now, so many things to do, that I need to get it all* out and try to organize it, because the pile of thoughts bouncing around my brain are making me feel a little like panicking. Being on vacation this week has somewhat helped, but also there is always a false sense of how much I will get done when I'm not working, and as the week winds down, my stress levels go back up.
*I would settle for some of it, honestly
Have to do today:
Ought to do today, or at least soon:
Before my brother comes for Thanksgiving, aka, he arrives in five weeks, ulp:
To do sometime:
All right, I'm going to do the coffee now, and then write some postcards. Vote, people! People in the US, that is. Make a plan, and vote!
I didn't mean to leave you hanging since my last update. Thank you all for all the good wishes! It's been a sort of weird period here, with a palpable drop-off in energy both physically and mentally since hurricane Milton blew through last week and upset all my plans (I know, I know: you plan, god laughs).
Friday night I was in bed before 8:30--I was so far past exhausted that I couldn't even see it in the rear view mirror--and I was not awake very much in the night before getting up around 11 hours later. It hasn't been as bad since then, but I have felt rather foggy since then. More so than usual, I mean!
Although my trip up north didn't end up working (sad trombone), I still took my vacation this week, which has been very pleasant. Yesterday I went to the yarn store to meet some of my friends for knitting, and then went to lunch! I wish I could join them for that every week. Retirement is going to be so excellent, when I can afford to do it.
I feel like there are wisps of thoughts in my head about evacuating that I would like to be in one place for future reference (hopefully far, far in the future), though I haven't organized my thoughts on it. Let me see what comes to mind:
All right, that's all the random I can come up with right now. Here, have a cute Maggie photo:
We drove home from the east coast on Friday. Our neighbor, who stayed through the storm, had told us on Thursday night that the power was back on (so it was out for about 20 hours in total), and added Friday morning that it was flickering now and then, but staying on.
The drive was fine, two and a half hours instead of more than four going over. There was some bad rain at the start, which I could have done without on the crazy east coast highways (I don't think there are any interchanges near me where the GPS has to tell you which of the eight lanes you should be in, but if there are, I never drive on them), but soon enough we were heading west and it was just busy, not crazy, from there.
We got home before 2 pm, and thankfully, the elevator worked to 1) get Mom and Maggie upstairs and inside, and 2) let me load up the big hotel-size luggage cart with most of the stuff from the car and get it upstairs. Then I took the cart back down and the elevator wouldn't go back up. Sigh. I texted the building manager, and he had the elevator repair person there in just a few minutes.
Side note, I wouldn't want his job.
He stopped working on it long enough to let me take it up, bless him, and we didn't try to use it again yesterday. This morning, our neighbor let me know that it wasn't working when she went to walk the dog; we've been having lots of power fluctuations, and our elevator is so sensitive, sigh. I'm hoping it will work today, but who knows.
More to come, but that's the basics for now. Hope you all are well, from the hurricane or just in general!
