Tuesday, November 18, 2025

Goldilocks Goes Shopping for a Handbag

I have written before about how I am like Goldilocks when it comes to handbags: I want certain things a certain way, or a certain size, and waaaayyyyy more bags do not fit my requirements than do fit them. Thanks to that blog post, I can say I have been using this bag for almost two years, and while it is Just Right in many ways, there are a few things that are Just All Wrong, and that boiled over recently and put me into "must find new bag now" time.

I mostly have liked carrying the bag I have. It has pretty good functionality for what I want, it's only slightly too big and thus prone to overfilling, and it's only a little too soft, making it want to slump over. I do love the pockets, and of course the rainbow.

But. The main problem with it is that the places where the handle clips onto the bag, both ends are metal, so they go clink-clink all the time. And sometimes, when I put it down in the car just wrong, it goes clink-clink-clink-clink-clink-clink-clink-clink until I move it. Or until I lose my mind. Which point apparently was closer than I thought.

So on Saturday, I went into Marshall's, and had a full-on Goldilocks run through the handbags. Too big, clinks, too big, too small, clinks, too big, too small, too small, too stiff, too floppy, and so many weird or ugly-to-me ones that I thought about taking pictures for a photo essay, before deciding that I was already going to be there long enough.

In the end, this was the winner:

It looks big, too big, but it fits over my shoulder perfectly, and the top part really isn't going to hold things in, so I won't be as prone to carrying too much. There's a small zip pocket on the outside, which should take my sunglasses.

The inside is mostly open, which means I have room for (from the top):
  • the small bag holding a shawl to wear
  • the small bag holding a sock knitting project
  • the small bag holding tissues, pills, and other small items
  • the crossbody bag that I use in place of a wallet, which holds all the usual wallet items, and also my phone and car key, if I just want to run into a store quickly
There is a pocket to the right that has a packet of tissues and a pen, and there's a small zip pocket to the left, which I'm not sure what wants to be in. Then under all the other bags is a small pouch that holds a few things I don't often need but may want, like a band-aid or sanitizing wipe.

Finally, each end has a zip pocket that reaches in along the side of the bag. I guess it would hold a few pieces of paper? Not sure what else.
Suggestions?

No clinking!

5 comments:

  1. I am impossible when it comes to finding a purse. I am now down to two, one for fall/winter/early spring, and one for late spring/summer. They have been around forever. I hope I don't ever have to replace them because my requirements are insane and ridiculous. I'd rather just carry a paper bag.

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  2. I really would like a new purse, but I don't really know what I'm looking for. It's very frustrating. I need to add it to my to-do list and at least look at options because I think I'll intuitively know what I want when I see it? Such is the hope...

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  3. I dread having to replace my purse because I'm like you on specifications. It can't be too small or big and has to have several zippered pockets for important items that I don't want loose.

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  4. Oooooh I love this post. Why are handbags and their contents so fascinating? I don't know but they are. I have several for different purposes, and I honestly think I'm going to have to retire my gigantic lulu bag that I used to take while teaching. I just don't need that much space anymore. My biggest thing is that I prefer a crossbody.
    I think your bag is gorgeous, and I love the zip in the front.

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  5. So glad you found the right one! And I love that I'm not the only one that wants it just so: I've been looking for a replacement purse for awhile. A wider strap, so it doesn't catch and tear my hair as easily. Lined. At least one zip pocket and one other. Wide and tall enough to accommodate a knitting project, not a big project but at least something. A pretty color. Good leather. A zipped top that goes all the way across, not the almost-there Portland Leather one that has a couple of inches open gap at the zipper ends and no lining.

    I once had the most perfect purse ever--except that it was an open tote. It was clearly designed for carrying knitting and the front had a knitted cable pattern embossed on the very nice leather at the front. And the color!

    I took it into the local shoe repair place at one point to try to keep it going. The man admired it for a good long moment, exclaimed over the quality of the leather, and said, That's a GOOD purse!

    But it finally got to where it could only look shabby and long-loved, which it was. I'm a one purse person. I certainly kept it, but I don't use it anymore. Never found anything like it.

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